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- N: Ignore my post above. Writing on a phone between traffic lights are not a great idea. @king My point is, we should...
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- King: Hey there Mojo: I’m not so much arguing that the government is either monolith or that it is dead set...
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- DAMM: Wendy’s brilliant career; each guy more richer than the last.
- Elagabalus: I guess the term ‘Yellow Cab’ wouldn’t apply here. I think ‘Yellow Limo’...
- N: After Jake Cherry and Murdoch, the next batter up is Tony Blair? It would be hilarious if true.
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- indieking: AA indie scene sucks, indie film from AA who goes back to HK to get support sucks, so how are you going to...
- Dman: Instead watch Byron Bigwowo favorite Asian American playwright David Henry Hwang semi-autobiographical teleplay...
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- bigWOWO: Here’s Ken Tanaka’s follow up: It’s pretty funny! It reminds me of Smelly Guys Is A Bad...
- K. Wallace: I once asked my lab partner in college where she was from (she happened to be asian american) At first I...
- John Doe: Along with all the where you are from questions, I wonder what would have been the reaction if the leaker...
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- Bint: Building up a strong economy and branding take a whole lot of time, years and even decades. Among these two,...
- Nottyboy: I don’t think that quality assurance scandals like the ones about the toxic baby formula help. I...
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- King: Well, it’s an interesting idea… but you do realize that you’re taking an article that is...
- Thak: @2nd Choice, This is true. White women like to comfort/delude themselves with the false belief that Asian men...
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- Pozhal: King, No, most authors do not become face recognizable until they’ve had their movies made into...
- King: I think that most authors do not become face recognizable until they have had several best sellers.
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- Interview with Darren Leung about The Grandmaster (6)
- Fast&FuriousDrew: LOL @ kobukson, robocop, and King.
- King: ^ me too http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =z-q29hbEP04
- robocop: @kobukson I’d buy that for a dollar
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- John Doe: “but hey if that doesn’t work there’s been an idea of a thorium power plant for a while now:”...
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- bigWOWO: BTW, I LOVED the last chapter, even though some people thought it was hard to relate to the rest of the...
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- smh: You know…Zhang Ziyi has consistently dated Chinese guys. Vivi Nevo was the only white guy she dated afaik....
- The ethnic media’s war on minority personal responsibility (8)
- Lingyai: Yeah I wanted to comment but ES said pretty much what I would. Thanks for saving me the time
- bigWOWO: Eurasian, I totally agree. To be quite honest, for me, as a person who has been following race since high...
- Eurasian Sensation: Seems like there are a few different issues at play here. I think a lot of people in public...
- Lingyai: Yeah I wanted to comment but ES said pretty much what I would. Thanks for saving me the time
- The Association of Asian American Studies and the boycott of Israeli institutions (19)
- N: @john doe Anyone who thinks the way that israel is created is acceptable should be happy to give back New Nexico,...
- John Doe: ^Yes Chr, I do know. Given all that doesn’t it make sense that Europe bear the burden of creating the...
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Tag Archives: fatherhood
Asian Fathers and Father’s Day
Michael Berry
I sometimes flip through political talk shows on the radio while I’m driving. The liberal hosts tend to be boring, and the conservative hosts tend to be morons, so it’s sometimes hard to find good stuff to listen to. Dr. Laura previously was my favorite host–conservative or liberal–and since she left, there has been a void. My favorite talk show these days is the Mark and Dave show.
Podcast with Ben and James on Fatherhood
Our latest podcast features Ben from Conceived and Composed and James from Alpha-Asian. In this latest installment, we talk about what it’s like to be a dad. You’ll hear how new dads Ben and James live today, what they were thinking before they had kids, and what life lessons they hope to impart to their kids. Download it here, or listen to it below. It’s 36 minutes and 33 MBs (yes, GarageBand f#$ed up again and I had to do the circular route which expanded the size. Apple is taking it out on the Asian male).
Posted in Asian American, parenting, Podcasts
Tagged Alpha-Asian, Asian American, Conceived and Composed, fatherhood
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Why Parents Hate Parenting
Thank you to RiceDaddy blogmaster Jason, who podcasted, facebooked, and blogged the NPR conversation above (Go directly to NPR here if the above video doesn’t load). It’s a discussion with three dads about whether being a dad makes a guy happier or not. It’s an extension of the conversation initiated by this article in New York Magazine: All Joy and No Fun: Why Parents Hate Parenting. According to the article, parents think that they’re happier because they decided to have kids, but in reality they’re not. There’s no correlation between kids and happiness, unless people have more than one kid, in which case they tend to be unhappier than people without kids.
Who's your daddy?
What irony!
Just a few days ago, I posted about extra pair copulations, talking about beta male birds who sneak up and “mate” with married birds while the alpha male husband is off fighting. I took the bird comparison and humanized it, comparing the beta bird to a guy who cheats with the wife of a military man who is fighting. I postulated that alpha males always beat beta males.
Well…it looks like I’m kind of wrong. Betas (for lack of a better word) can win…in court. The NY Times site has an article that discusses a very interesting situation with paternity. Check it here.
