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What Cultures Value

Thanks to Eurasian Sensation, who posted this article: The One-Shot Society. The article is about the educational system in Korea, where students cram like mad for one college entrance test, a test which determines the career that they will have for the rest of their lives. In Korea, as the article mentions, people rarely change jobs, so it’s imperative that students get into the best university and then into the best company. We’ve spoken about this trend in Korea and how it limits their opportunities to make decisions later in life, which is why many Koreans try to become doctors.
Jones-Machida Inspires My Hunger for Vocabulary

Schadenfreude. It means pleasure at someone else’s misfortune. It’s German. English has no word for it, although English speakers most certainly feel it.
I’m at a loss after Jon Jones choked Lyoto Machida unconscious. And it has troubled me, because I don’t have words to express what I’m feeling. Somewhere in some language there must be vocabulary to express the sentiments:
1. Jon Jones: There must be a word to indicate my feelings towards him. “I dislike his arrogant personality but I like his arrogant martial arts style so I might as well deal with it,” therefore I feel **** about him.
10 Years Later after 9/11
10 years has passed since 9/11.
I was awoken the morning of 9/11/2001 by a phone call from Japan where I lived in New York. I had a ticket to fly to California at 4pm later in the day. My original plan had been to fly to California on my normal early morning flight. But as I was unemployed and accustomed to sleeping in late, I opted instead to fly a little later. A friend called from Japan, and she said something about a plane crashing into the World Trade Center, and had I heard about it. I said that wow, that must have been a pretty bad accident. She then said that another plane had just crashed into another tower.
Lessons of the Creative Class from Ultimate Fighting
I’ve always believed that if you know one thing very well, you can apply that knowledge to other areas of life. One microcosm can contain knowledge applicable to the larger world. The Ultimate Fighting Championship, with it’s creative and fun fights and strict focus on business, can teach valuable lessons for people working in the creative class. Here you go, and please don’t hesitate to add your own:
1. Life is as much of an art as a science. Check out Jon Fitch. He’s beaten just about everyone but the champion and BJ Penn in his division, but he’ll most likely never get a shot at the title again. Dana White, after the Fitch-Penn fight, said:
UFC Needs a Rule Change: Knees to the Head on Downed Opponents
I just noticed this article from USA Today–Chael Sonnen gets an immediate rematch against Anderson Silva.
This is crazy. While I can understand that Sonnen gave Silva more trouble than any other competitor, Silva beat Sonnen fair and square the first time, and therefore Sonnen should go back to the end of the line like everyone else. Immediate rematches should be reserved for close decisions, not decisive wins. When your top fighters only fight three times a year, it’s important that every prospective champion gets a shot.
The Happy Post
(Corny but happy and cute video above.)
Thanks everyone, for your contributions to the Building Subcultures and Accepting Emotions thread. Please keep on adding…the conversation is great, and I’m reading every comment, even if I’m not participating as much as I’d like to. We’re coming upon our two year anniversary, and bigWOWO has just moved to Peachyhost, a company run by my friend Zach and his friend Keith. I just paid my big ol’ hosting bill for the next two years. Some bloggers kvetch about paying bills and stuff–I’m no different, I complain till the cows come home…but as long as some of you are benefiting, it’s totally worth the cost. I can’t promise that this blog is totally recession proof or boredom proof, but it looks like we’ve got at least two more years of time paid upfront.
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