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“Touch” by Minh Duc Nguyen (Trailer Review)
bigWOWO rating: Avoid this racist bullshit. Seriously, given the crap we’ve gone through, it’s not overkill to protest the minute you see something like this.
Check out the trailer for Touch. It’s…OMG…yet ANOTHER WM/AF movie with Asian men in the background. And not only is it yet ANOTHER WM/AF movie, it’s a WM/AF movie by…bada boom bada bing…an Asian American guy (Minh Duc Nguyen)! And it’s produced by an Asian woman (Mellissa Tong)! Reminds me of Red Doors and Falling From…I mean, For…Grace–the racist legacy continues. It’s funny that I wrote about the exclusion of the Asian American heterosexual male among Asian Americans, and sure enough there’s a whole lot of stuff coming out that excludes Asian American heterosexual men, as if the universe had come together to help me prove my point. Check out the info on some of these movies: they’re winning Asian American movie awards. Did I or did I not speak the truth about our exclusion?
The Asian Rock Thread
I saw y’all’s interesting discussion on music started by Catwalq in the other thread. I agree with you, there aren’t many Asian American ROCK bands, except maybe the Morning Benders. Sorry for all the old videos; I’ve been away from the scene for a while. But these are among my favorite Asian rock songs:
My daughter likes this song by Elephant Kashimashi:
Here’s the Morning Benders:
I think it’s hard to be an AA rock band. The singer-songwriter acoustic thing seems to be more popular, regardless of who is singing.
Chinglish by David Henry Hwang
I know it’s been a while since you people have seen a WM/AF couple in theater, so I wanted to alert you to a new play coming soon to a theater near you: “Chinglish,” by David Henry Hwang. According to the NY Times, it’s “about a bewildered American businessman hoping to make his fortune in capitalist China.” We clearly don’t have enough White male protagonists in American theater, so I’m glad David Henry Hwang is providing job opportunities and media attention for the less fortunate.
Invisible Heterosexual Asian Men
Check out my piece in the current issue of the Seattle-based International Examiner: Heterosexual Asian Men and the Invisibility Problem. I even managed to quote Russell Simmons at the end.
My favorite line: “We Asian men are de-facto exiles within our own culture.”
The piece begins:
Fear of Flying by Erica Jong (Review)

I wanted to read something different, so I decided to check out Fear of Flying by Erica Jong. Erica Jong herself isn’t a racial minority (although she’s Jewish), but she was married to a Chinese American psychologist for a while (a dude with the last name Jong), and I had heard that Fear of Flying, an autobiographical novel, was about a White woman married to a Chinese guy. I had also heard that the book was an important one for the growing feminist movement during the 70′s, and I thought it might be good for me to educate myself.
Everyone Wants To Live Like Americans

This is my 1,000th bigWOWO post.
Of all the afterthoughts following the death of Steve Jobs and the legacy of Apple, the most interesting one I read was AskAKorean’s Can Korea Be Truly Creative? In the post, he writes about how Steve Jobs inspired Koreans to ask each other if their country could be as creative as Apple.
It’s long for a blog post, but give it a read if you have time. The conclusion “The Korean” reaches is that Korea is already creative. The reason Apple was able to do what it did, the Korean speculates, is due in large part to the fact that Apple is an American company. He writes:
Screen Time and Education

I saw these two seemingly contradictory articles in the NY Times recently.
The first article was about a rich, private school in Silicon Valley which discourages the use of technology as a learning tool: At Waldorf School in Silicon Valley, Technology Can Wait. Parents, many of whom work at Apple, Google, EBay, and Yahoo, pay thousands of dollars to send their kids to this school, and yet there isn’t a single computer on campus. Instead they learn with pens, paper, and bright colored chalk. One father who is a Google employee says:
2011 CAAM Fellowship Program
Got this in my inbox. Thought it might be useful for some of the media artists to meet accomplished AAs in the field. We definitely need more Asian Americans to be creating films. Sign up if you’re interested! (It’s due on Monday!!!)
About the 2011 CAAM Fellowship Program
After a successful inaugural year, CAAM is excited to launch the CAAM Fellowship Program for 2011. Furthering CAAM’s work to nurture Asian American media professionals and advance the field of Asian American Media, the Program will connect talented and dedicated individuals with leading professionals in the field. The CAAM Fellowship Program seeks to develop the talents and skills of a range of media professions including filmmakers, actors, programmers, and executives.
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Emotional Intelligence and EQ

Emotional Intelligence was a book by Daniel Goleman that I read over ten years ago. I don’t remember the details of the book, but I remember being struck by the idea that a person’s “emotional intelligence” can determine a person’s success in life. Goleman had case studies of really smart high IQ people who lose it because they can’t control or engage their emotions. Goleman directed people’s attention instead to EQ– Emotional Intelligence Quotient. Check out an excellent reader review of Goleman’s book here. About.com defines emotional intelligence by saying:
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Artists Who Refuse to Work for Free

Someone (who prefers to remain anonymous) sent me a link to the above T-shirt and asked me if I agree. It reads:
I am an artist. This does not mean I will work for free. I have bills like you. Thank you for understanding.
I agree, and I disagree. Having been on both sides–creating the art and asking people to do the art for free, it’s not a simple question with a simple answer.