I think he misread our social dynamics.

Student,

Check out my “final” piece on PUA here:

http://www.bigwowo.com/2008/12/the-post-pua-era-of-the-asian-american-blogosphere/

Our little author goes on to just bash pua’s in general on ridiculously claims like they are all pathological liars. This really shows this guys intelligence level here, puas are all different they are not just one clone of each other. I feel that all this anger may be a sign of this mans own jealousy and unwillingness to admit fault…. perhaps. Also i don’t know what this BS about boundaries defining our identity is hahahaha, it sounds like pop psychology from a OK magazine.

As for puas in general and the seduction community. It is a way for men to help improve their social skills and increase their attractiveness, very noble pursuits, becoming a better man. Manipulation is a loaded word, understanding does not constitute negative motives, by that i mean understanding social situations. I will concede that the pua thing is a bit odd or quirky would be a better word, but only as it goes against the norm, it is very unique there is really nothing like it not even in the academic world, part of the reason the seduction community exists. Puas are simply men who need help or would like some anyway, and yes their may be the odd dickhead who uses women etc. but they would have been like that before, there are many more morally unstable men outside of puas.

Before you critic the pua thing learn about it, i mean learn about it past the routines lol. Anyway i do not really care what people think about the community, most people are scared of understanding social dynamics and fear people who do, most men will protect their ego rather than attempt to improve themselves. Well this has turned into an epic ramble, but basically the author of this article is a fool.

Oh yes and I am obviously someone who study’s and applies pua material and theory.
I am improving myself.
And making a habit of it!

You mean you’re homeless?

I don’t advocate all pua stuff but everybody can always sharpen their game. To all the haters out there, I met my ex-gf and current gf on the street.

Those lines are great:

“Ya know, you look really hot! You must be real reason for global warming.”

Haha!

Man, there’s going to be some soul-searching/thinking about culture in this frontpage post. It’s hard because I think our culture really frowns upon loudness. It’s that whole thing about not standing out. But clearly we need to make changes.

MaSir,

Are you sure you endorse PUA? With the possible exception of the tension/seriousness/lack of humor that they all seem to embody, it seems that you disapprove of most of the things they do. (I not-so-secretly hope you don’t endorse them.)

Haha! You’re doing fine. Many of the lines started out like that, but you understand, it’s not so much about the lines themselves, as much as it’s about approaching girls, trying to be clever/funny about it, and learning how to laugh at the inevitable rejections. It’s just a game and it’s about having fun.

Example:
Guy says: “Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to walk by a second time?” (smiles at her)
Girl replies: “That’s OK baby… no need to repeat your mistakes.” (smiles back at him)
/Example

Of course, there’s no way to translate all of the vocal support, head shaking, and laughter from the crowd, but it was a lot more about the experience than it was about the words. Even the dumbest lines would get some support because, hey, the little guy was trying.

And as you grow older, what you take away with you is experience. I don’t remember most of the lines, they were just a medium, but what remains is a confidence, ease, and respect, around women folk. From a kid, I know that it’s always rewarding to try, and that failure won’t kill you.

That’s what I learned by mackin’.

I’ve never used those lines in my entire life.